I like many others struggle with my anger. As a pastor I need to understand that I have a flaw that needs to be worked on, not only to better myself but my family and those who need my help and guidance. I want to share a bible verse that helps me stop and take a breath. As children of God we must always strive to be more Christ like everyday and work on being righteous in the eyes of the Lord. I hope this helps you as much as it helps me.
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.